Wellness Articles

Inspirations for Children of Aging Parents

Wellness Index

I am aware that someday I will become a "parent" to my parents.

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I realize that responsibility for my aging parents can carry emotional and financial strains, and I am preparing for such challenges.

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I know that a serious medical problem can affect my parent at any time,

and such knowledge is helping me deal with the possibility now.

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I lovingly accept the responsibility of caring for my parents as they cared for me.

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I am becoming an expert on my parents. I'm learning about their needs from a doctor and from my parents themselves.

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I recognize that my parents, like me, can feel helpless and depressed due to unpredictable, uncontrollable events, but I'm a beacon to them, helping to brighten their day.

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I can help my parents come up with positive solutions and choices, whether for transportation, health care, nutrition, companionship, therapy, leisure time activities, or where they will live.

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I have the power and the right to ask my siblings to do their part for our parents — without bad feelings if it is not up to my expectations.

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I am preparing my family for a disruption of their routine if a parent has to move in with us.

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My parents and I are resolving childhood problems so that we can enjoy a closer relationship.

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I know the limitations of Medicare, Medicaid, and most supplemental insurance policies regarding the costs of long-term nursing home care or day care.

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I am investigating agencies that can help me with my parents: for nursing, housecleaning, transportation, meals, counseling, therapy, and financial assistance.

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I am learning about the wealth of opportunities available from support groups for caregivers like me.

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Everything I do for my aging parents springs from love and positive communication.

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There is no reason for blame or guilt in my life, especially when it comes to how I treat my parents.

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